UCO GOP students plan "Straight Pride Week"
I think the first word of this is not supposed to be there, but here ya go:
(Edmond, Oklahoma) Gay Republicans at the University of Central Oklahoma say gay students are trying to take away their right to free speech.
The UCO College Republicans says it will go ahead with "Straight Pride Week" on campus despite criticism. The group says it has every right to celebrate.
"The general gist is that if you are a straight student on campus be proud, be loud, this is your time to shine," College Republican Kyle Houts told Oklahoma City's channel 5.
The group has posted fliers on campus that read, "we're here, we're conservative, we're out."
Members of the UCO Gay Alliance for Tolerance and Equality say they consider the event an attack on LGBT students.
"What is there to say about it, 'I'm proud, and I'm straight and I guess white,' I don't know?" said GATE member Jennifer Rodriguez. "I think they definitely are being discriminatory because there's probably a lot of gay Republicans out there."
University officials have given the College Republicans permission to put up their fliers, but say their approval does not constitute an endorsement.
First: Of course UCO must grant them permission to post their flyers. Government agencies shouldn't restrict speech by content, thanks to the First Amendment.
Second: The point of "Gay Pride" festivals, in the US and elsewhere, are for people who are told daily - mostly by Republicans - that they have to pretend not to be who they are. Conservatives tell gay people every day that they're going to burn in hell for who they are, or at the very least, that they need to pretend to be straight if they want to avoid getting the crap beat out of them. Take a look at this entry from a gay Oklahoma City University student (that's OCU, not UCO) for an example:
Here at a university, free thought is supposed to reign, and new ideas and cultures mix and are shared with everyone. People at a university are supposed to be more mature, more open to new ideas. Especially being an art school one would imagine that OCU is especially open-minded and welcoming.
Hence my shock and amazement at finding that I cannot walk to the lunch room without being called a "fag." In fact, many gay students must put up with a barrage of insults, glares, gossip, dirty pranks and general bigotry on a daily basis.
Gay Pride events are about these people standing up and saying, "Screw you - we're citizens just like you, we have the same rights you do, and we're not going to pretend to be something we're not just because it makes you feel icky."
I'm unaware of any Republicans at UCO facing "insults, glares, gossip, dirty pranks and general bigotry on a daily basis" simply because they're Republican. These kids have somehow convinced themselves that people disagreeing with them means their opinions are being suppressed.
Then again, when their leader continually says, "You're either for us or you're for the terrorists," it's not hard to see where that myopia comes from.
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NY Times: "If every parent in the world has a blog, then maybe it really will be about the child rather than the parent," Ms Waldman said. "Because at that point the child is the only one who's going to read it."
BigPub fallacy #1 about blogs -- the main thing about a blog is how many people read it.
I agree with this. This blog isn't a promotional vehicle for MDJ and MWJ, or an attempt to become a name-brand pundit. It's an online journal of thoughts and feelings, stuff I would say at the water cooler if I still worked at a place that had one. (This is Oklahoma. We have faucets. They're very handy.)
That's why I disagreed with Jerry's last post:
If you look at my posting frequency, I've obviously become less and less interested in this blog over the last year or so. The fact is, like most small-time bloggers, I don't have anything unique to offer. I don't have the time or the inclination to write long pieces -- I write for a living, so writing more after I get home just doesn't appeal to me. Worse, I've lately been kicking myself about not writing any fiction, and spending my leftover writing "juice" on blogging isn't helping. Most depressing of all, I've spent so long writing stuff in which an authorial voice is a negative, I'm not sure I even have a voice of my own anymore, so I don't really have that going for me, either.
Topic-wise, I'm not interested in stirring controversy, I feel like a naif at politics, and I don't want to post slices of my life because frankly my life is as boring as yours, and it's none of your business anyway. As a white male nerd in his mid-thirties, I don't have a point of view that isn't shared by at least a million other guys. Despite my longtime Apple neepery, I'm not even much good as a Mac analyst compared to guys like Gruber. But posting other people's warmed-over links, regardless of how cool they are, has definitely lost its charm. I realized recently that if I started posting links at del.icio.us instead of here, they'd vanish without a trace because they're just like everyone else's links. I add nothing to what you'd find at Boing Boing or similar link-oriented sites.
So, that's where I am. Expect extremely sporadic posting until I figure out what I want to do with this site. It'll probably involve photography, since that's one way I do have to generate new, original content.
I didn't notice that Jerry disabled comments for that post until today, but I told him on the phone last week that I disagree with it. I don't worry that I'm saying something unique here, or building traffic (I know about four people read this, and about three more via RSS). I know some of you already found some of the links I post, but some of you haven't. I wouldn't have found Malcolm Gladwell's writings if Jerry hadn't linked to them. Not everyone reads Boing Boing or del.icio.us, or works in a big office where plenty of people share what they found on their surfing. What you like, you should mention. If you want to say something, say it. If no one cares, big whoop.
I don't follow all of Jerry's links, and I have seen some of them before, but I like knowing what catches his eye. I enjoy looking at his photographs, but if he transforms his blog into a photo-nerd blog, I'll probably just look at the pictures. I can't tell an F-stop from F-Troop. But if that's what moves him, that's what he ought to do, dang it.
The things I post are usually the things I would be talking to friends about on the phone, though I still save the most personal stuff for the private area. Sometimes I just don't get started talking about something soon enough to post it here except in a big story I never find the time to write. That's how it was with my conversion to HDTV last quarter, and with DirecTV's stated intentions to screw HDTV TiVo owners this year. I still hope to vent on that someday.
I don't know how non-Manila blogging software works, but with the in-browser editing, and especially now with cross-blog software like MarsEdit (which I'm using right now), blogging is like writing an E-mail to friends, except instead of using a mailing list, it's on the Web. People can read it or not, they can use RSS to find new entries or not, they can find it by Google if it's relevant or live perfectly happy lives never knowing about this little corner of cyberspace. I think that's fine. If people care about something I have to say, they can read it. If they don't, they're not bothered with it.
Sure, someday, I might want to put some ads on here if there are enough readers to make it worthwhile, but at present, I'm fortunate enough to have this space on the Web without worrying about such things. I get to vent, remove stuff from the front of my mind, and get on with life. I like it when people read these entries, but it's just as much fun to have them handy so I can send a link to someone instead of repeating an entire rant I formed a day or two earlier.
Don't worry about how many people are reading, or about whether or not your blog is unique, I say. Post what you want to post and don't worry about the rest. Daily, weekly, monthly - whatever works. I'm posting more these days because I changed my workstyle around some, and I'm now reading RSS news on a big Power Macintosh G5 with a big 22-inch display, not on a PowerBook. As fun as the PowerBook can be, it's a lot easier to post with a big keyboard, a mouse, and lots of screen space for extra windows.
So now I'm posting almost daily. Before that, sometimes once or twice a week. Big deal. Blogging is not something I do for other people. It's for me. I hope others enjoy it, however they come here, but I'm doing it to have the conversation. I don't want to become Andrew Sullivan.
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